The Cycle of Delayed Leadership for Millenials in Kenya

For decades, millennials in Kenya have been hailed as the “future leaders.” From childhood, we were told that we would inherit the mantle of change, that we would revolutionise industries, lead nations, and redefine society. Yet, here we are, in our late 30s and early 40s, still being called the “future” while leadership opportunities slip further away.
Meanwhile, the cutoff age for youth-targeted programs, grants, and opportunities is often set at 35. The irony? Millennials have aged out of the very systems meant to empower young leaders, yet we are still not viewed as the leaders of today. Were we jinxed with an eternal waiting game? Is the promise of leadership for millennials a mirage we were always meant to chase but never reach? And how can Gen Z avoid this endless loop of postponed power?
The Stolen Promise of Leadership
The “future leaders” mantra wasn’t just an encouragement. It was a programmed delay. The phrase subtly conditioned millennials in Kenya to wait, to hold off, to keep preparing instead of seizing leadership when the time was right especially in the political leadership. The problem is the time was never “right” for us.
- In our 20s, we were told we were too young and inexperienced.
- In our 30s, we were advised to be patient and keep learning.
- In our 40s, we’re still being called the “future,” as if leadership is forever on the horizon but never within reach.
This endless postponement of power has left millennials disillusioned, watching older generations cling to authority while younger generations position themselves as the new torchbearers. It begs the question – were we never meant to lead?
The Structural Barriers That Block Millennials
It is no accident that millennials in Kenya find themselves stuck in this cycle. Several systemic issues have ensured that we never quite arrive at the leadership table:
Boomers Holding on to Power: The older generation’s reluctance to pass the baton has been a significant roadblock. Many boomers and Gen X leaders have stayed in power far longer than anticipated, refusing to step aside for fresh perspectives. This stagnation has kept millennials in waiting mode, never given the chance to prove their top political leadership potential.
The Economic Setback: Millennials entered the workforce during economic crises, 2008’s financial collapse, stagnating wages, and soaring student debt. While past generations climbed corporate ladders with relative ease, millennials had to fight just to stay afloat. Many struggled to build financial stability, let alone claim leadership positions.
The Age-Locked System: Opportunities meant for young leaders often cap eligibility at 35. But when millennials were in their 20s, leadership positions were scarce. Now, in our late 30s and early 40s, we’re deemed too old for youth programs but not yet established enough for executive and top political leadership roles. This strategic cutoff ensures that leadership keeps slipping from our grasp.
Breaking the Cycle: Lessons for Gen Z
If Gen Z wants to avoid the same trap, they must break the cycle and claim leadership now—without waiting for permission. Here’s how:
- Don’t Wait for It: One of the biggest lessons for millennials was realising that leadership isn’t just going to come to us on its own. Gen Z should boldly take the reins! They can run for office, pursue executive roles, and create their own leadership opportunities instead of waiting for an invitation.
- Extend the Table: If the current leadership structure isn’t welcoming enough, Gen Z can build their own systems! It’s all about creating new platforms, industries, and opportunities rather than trying to squeeze into outdated models that were never meant to include them.
- Ignore the “Too Young” Lie: When people say, “You’re too young to lead,” remember that it’s just a way to delay your power. Millennials faced the same challenge, and as time went on, we were told we were suddenly “too old.” The best time to lead is always right now!
- Leverage Technology and Social Movements: Millennials didn’t have the advantage of digital activism the way Gen Z does today. With social media and grassroots movements, Gen Z has the power to drive change faster than any generation before! It’s important for them to use this opportunity to amplify their voices, connect communities, and inspire institutional shifts.
Millennials: It’s Not Too Late
While millennials find themselves trapped in a cycle of postponed leadership, there remains hope. The essential action is to cease the waiting. Here’s how we can assert our significance:
- Challenge the Narrative: We are not the leaders of tomorrow; we are the leaders of today. It’s crucial to shift the conversation and claim our power in the present instead of anticipating an invitation that may never arrive.
- Create Parallel Leadership Structures: If traditional institutions exclude us, we must build our own. Through startups, independent media, or grassroots movements, millennials need to forge spaces where they can lead on their own terms.
- Mentor and Collaborate with Gen Z: Instead of viewing Gen Z as rivals, millennials ought to collaborate with them to end the cycle of postponed power. Together, these generations can challenge the status quo and dismantle outdated hierarchies.
- Run for Office, Take Leadership Roles: In politics, corporate leadership, or community initiatives, millennials need to step into leadership roles now. The more of us who take action, the more challenging it becomes to keep us on the sidelines.
Leadership is Now, Not Tomorrow
The notion that millennials are the “future leaders” has been misleading, keeping us in a cycle of preparation, hope, and anticipation while actual leadership stayed just beyond our grasp. If we keep waiting, we risk growing older, still convinced that our time will eventually arrive. Gen Z needs to learn from our errors and seize leadership now without seeking approval. Millennials should discard the falsehood of the “future leader” and step into the roles we were always meant to occupy. The moment is now. No more delays. No more justifications. We lead today.
Author
Dr. Gilbert A. Ang’ana is a Social Scientist at the core. He thinks, acts, and influences on leadership, governance, and policy.




